Very nice article, great to help people move on to enjoy the rest of their lives, your kindness shows through, thank you for writing it. She baits me along telling me she was weak and it was a mistake and it was my fault for leaving her a mess Wait, you kicked me out. That was not even all my husband and his girlfriend did. She lied and broke my heart. Im not so much after advice, but comfort would be great right about now. Instead of focusing on yourself, try to understand what is behind his decision. She spent a few nights at his place and on new years eve she drove him home and spent the night. Ive lost my best friend, majority of custody of my daughter, my family home, my values and my wife. He called me on his way home that night and told me he loved me that day, then gone. And I have plenty of divorced friends who are now happy. I finally waited by the locker and he finally came to the locker 4 hours. But I still love her, more than those words could ever describe. We wanted to provide links to some resources that may be relevant to you here. If you would like to consult with a mental health professional, please feel free to return to our homepage, http://www.goodtherapy.org/, and enter your zip code into the search field to find therapists in your area. We have a 5yr old a 2yr old and a 4 week old. Dont screw yourself. It takes a brave man to walk out on his wife and kids. I also was finding 100 S of dollars in her car over and over and over with the pills. "You're being ridiculous.". Just before our 26th wedding anniversary my wife told me she no longer wanted to be in a relationship. I think weve grown apart over the years but we still had a comfortable and affectionate relationship. There isnt anything you can do to change the past and make him stay with you. 4 months ago he started being very cold with me. First he started four days after our wedding to over communicate in the internet and made sure that I dont see what he does. I feel torn of the situation and the new person in my life has given me perspective on how relationships are truly to be. I like CassieDbut its getting to be almost a half of a year since she has posted. After learning about their relationship I still want to be with her. I felt like my world was ending and their was nothing I can do to cope with the harsh reality of what just occurred. Then I found out that she had actually gone away with her ex husband, and our daughter slept at a friends house to make it look good. He said he no longer loved me and couldnt to it anymore. I DONT believe it and im so hurt, now im struggling to go on and when i think of what my kids will go through it breaks my heart..I simply cant envision my future without him..but i must. I say the same thing. Hi man am so sorry to hear that even me am in the same situation last of last week i find my wife chat with guy sp when i ask her she was fighting and fighting but i cul her mum to talk with child but even kmw we still fighting so i dnt know what to do about this situation please guys i need advice she gave 27 years old and i have 29 year she have a kid i dnt have a kid, Hey Jason, She use to tell me I was a good man and was so good to her. It makes it easier to reach this point again. Travelling back and forth abroad to see her. Left with no reason. Part of the reason was because he was working too much and I was left to take care of the children while dealing with my emotional issues. I always try to communicate with her pushing to know whats going on but she will pick offence and let in argument. I work full time and take care of everything in the house. with my kids asking the same question and my narcissistic ex looks like a victim of a situation that just didnt work out as we grew apart as he puts it. But guilt still plagues me. I miss her deeply. She has not even called to see how our son is doing and its been 10 days. He works with her and finds her intellectually stimulating. Sorry for your heartache. I had to call her mom today and asked her if she could grab my work shirts and she finally calls annoyed I got her mom involved and tells me to just come over after work. She had an affair and i found out about, and I think she cant stand living with the guilt, so by leaving the marriage the guilt goes away. What is very sad today is that the great majority of women cause most divorces, and theyre without a doubt such low life losers altogether too. Coping with the end of a relationship can be difficult on many levels. Im not sure, I was available to him for conversation,I very rarely went out because I work multiple jobs simultaneously, take care of the kids and the house. When someone walks away from u let them walk ur destiny was never tied to anyone that left. Read what happens when a) they loose their job. I work out at a gym and have put my grandson and myself in martial arts to help me cope. she just kept it in and kept it a secret.he was sending her money, and they were making plans for a long time her to leave and moved to England.now theyre engaged to be married and are making wedding plans.and also looking into a goth wedding, with a blood red dress and even have a guest invitation list.all this and she is still married to me.the divorce is pending, because of abandonment and being international,it could take years to finalize.I am at a loss for answers, I have no closer.I guess I will never get closer.this is clearly the worst thing that is ever happened to me. Maybe tomorrow I will feel better, thats what I keep thinking & one of these times I will. My eldest 10. You just have to get there. I also feel like such a wreck and cant see any woman ever wanting me as I dont like me. Dear Kelly, If you think consulting with a mental health professional might help you, please use our directory to find a good fit. I was together with my wife for 19.5 years. Her husband left her too because he has another woman. I have been with my partner for 5 years we live together, our relationship was very fiery at the start there was quite a few break ups over various reasons, in the last 2years we havent split up once or even had a big enough argument to consider doing that, we have had petty little arguments but thats about all. I looked everywhere and i sat outside of the area for a long time. She told me she was leaving, that she had been unhappy for about a month, and that she needed to figure out who she was, saying that because she hadnt really been single for a lengthy period since she was 18 (shes 22 now) she based her individuality on her relationship. I would often check in emotionally to make sure things were getting better I didnt like the use of pronouns on this articlehe feels unappreciated, she met someone else, he doesnt love you anymore. Help is available, and we wish you the best of luck in your search. My husband left me as he fall o love with a woman online which he has never meet. We share same breathe. Well, he left on an extended work trip overseas a couple weeks later and completely disconnected. I have cried for months. The police were here due to a fight and they said he didnt have to leave early unless he chose to . And part of me wants to move on and find somebody who truly appreciates and loves me for who I am. Wife of 22 years left 2 weeks ago because she decided she was gay and had reciprocal feelings towards our best female friend. Whens it supposed to get better? Only God can fix this mess. But Im ready to face her and smile and not give her the satisfaction she thinks she going to get when I see her this Thursday. Well I am two weeks over surgery and still at a wait and see state with my husband. my wife of 25 years had a facebook affair with a strange man from the UK she had this affair online for eight months.and they met only 10 month after his wife died. Theyve only been talking for weeks and he thinks he has fallen in love with this person. I beg you to take me from here: Spousal abandonment and the experience of separation in flight from persecution. And now the most important step you can take in your journey to get over your husband: I know its hard, but you have to realize that it might be over between the two of you. Because he worked full time he told me that from Monday to Friday he was unavailable and so I was alone doing it all . Dont be a victim . It is atrocious and inhumane how you have been treated. First of all i feel sorry for you i know where your coming from.my wife left me after 16 yrs. Very true . it said she was on her way to England and she was never coming back to United States and that she wanted a divorce.just totally out of the blue, everything was normal all the way up to the day she left.she kept everything a secret and well hidden.I was totally devastated by this. I resented my husband a lot during this time. I guess theres a lot of money being made in the divorce and recovery business encouraging people like my ex wife to wreck our families. I noticed subtle differences in her towards me, emotionally. I thought to myself what the fk? And now she wants to leave. My husband, who I have been with for 15 years and have two young children with left me in November 2014. Hi Nathan. Where r u? And i did love her very much at the time, thinking that i was going to spend the rest of my life with her as well. Still I feel compelled to tell you that I understand. Tonight while in bed at my place we had an argument. A couple days after New Years she finally agrees to let me come grab a garbage bag of clothes. Either way Im totally broken, unable to cope and cannot see a way ahead. Research on keeping couples together is awesome, but if youve ever been through a divorce you will know that statistics and research dont heal a broken heart. She has quit her job and spends the daytime in our house waiting for the kids to finish school and leaves before I get back (leaving the house a tip). We have always had a strong relationship, but I lost my job and she was just about to start college, I got another job with the government and was doing that while she was in school, yes because of this situation we did get behind finiancally . ..I thought it was the alcohol but hes not drank now for 3wks and hes gotten worse! Its just going to crush me down the rd seeing her with another man. You do need help, and having a friend or family member around is not only a great way for you to feel like youre not alone, but its also a better way for them to understand your pain. Just sad. I love him so much and wish things were different, but Ill be strong for my boys they need me much more then my husband ever did. Cant sleep without sleeping pills or wine. I asked him to leave her alone. She and I know the marriage was no longer a marriage and to carry on would be a sham. My parents passed last year, her mother has been on her death bed and abusive to my wife as she takes care of her. That happened to a friend of mine and he a lot of her settlement and then spent it and then got divorced and she couldnt get it back. So he had plenty of time to do what he wanted to do.

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